He Is Leaving The Life He's Come To Know He Said He's Going To Find What's Left Of His World The World He Left Behind Not So Long Ago He's Leaving On That Midnight Train To Georgia
Gladys Knight And The Pips
Imagination 1973
DAY 1
The Drive:
I decided, after I checked in and The Dude headed on down the road, that going for a walk would be a veteran call. Threw on a pair of pants, powered up the Garmin, and out the door I walked under a blanket of twinkling stars. Two highlights would be finding a twenty in the back pocket of my pants and falling asleep to the crocking frogs in the distance.
DAY 2
Portola , Ca:
I woke up early and my hotel room was filled by the aroma of Ponderosa Pine pollen and fresh mature Cedar trees. I walked down to the local coffee shop for a breakfast that included an egg burrito and a cup of fresh Joe. And then pulled a Forest Gump and went for a walk around the little sleepy old railroad town. The house below was our neighbors The Popish Family and they build the only flat roof house in all of Portola back in the day.
I met up with my step sister and The Dude at 10am like scheduled. After that meeting, The Dude And I drove out to Bill And Jan's place to meet up with the realtor. The realtor explained her concerns and asked if we address some of these issues before the house goes on the market. Overwhelming for sure but its only one project at a time. And lucky me, Country Radio was playing from the boom box, only FM station available high in the Sierra Nevada Mountains.
Anyway, The Dude and I shot over to the local small, I mean very small, True Value for supplies. Let The Games Begin
DAY 3
Manual Labor:
Keep in mind, my step sister and her family removed TWO, not just one but two, 18 Cubic Yard roll away dumpsters of trash from inside the home. They also had the emotional burden of cleaning out those personal items and asking themselves about what to do with... This was all done months before my arrival.
That night, we supported the local wood fired pizza place and enjoyed a pitcher of fresh Wheat, Oats, & Barely. I was pretty tired and stiff but once again found myself walking the dark streets after dinner. All in total, walked 14 miles / 22km on the day. Day one - 3.8 miles / 6km - Day two 7.9 miles / 12.7km. Walking And Processing
DAY 4
Spreading:
Friday morning was a wash, lather, rinse, and repeat. Breakfast burrito and a hot cup of Joe, off to Bill and Jan's place, touch up paint, nailed down an oil line from the tank to the heater unit inside, sweeping out the garage, cleaning the windows, checking on the completed list, and then hosing off the house. Yes, pulled out the garden hose and washed the decades of built up dirt off the siding of the house. It was raining mud and the white was almost too white. I am very proud to be leaving the house in better shape than when we found it. Yes, I wish I had another week because I would love to pull the carpet, roll the walls with a fresh coat of paint, and cock the window jams.
DAY 5
Eulogy:
Saturday morning started off with my arm completely numb and under my pillow. I struggled to roll off of it, used my other hand to pull that frozen stiff arm from under the pillow, and lifting that dead arm up felt so bizarre and heavy. Sleepy and a completely tingling dead arm wasn't the ideal situation for navigating my morning.
As Bryan and I descended from Rocky Point, sweeping into view not all that high above was a Golden Eagle. It had a monstrous wingspan of a flying dinosaur. Its powerful talons trailing behind. Its feathers spread with the fullness of a parachute, they stalled the air. These domed wings suddenly occupying more space than the both of our own bodies combined. With limber figure skating grace, it landed on an open branch of a might Ponderosa Pine. The wings remained out stretched for a moment in time, this Golden Eagle teetering for balance. Then they closed tight to the body, in control, surveying the landscape of possibilities of fishing the crystal clear flowing waters of the Feather River. My shoulders dropped, my breath was effortlessly full again, and my nervous system was claiming. Finding myself here in Portola, My Birth Home. I Could Breathe Again - I asked everyone in attendance to take a deep belly breath - Bill & Jan loved their animals. From Sammie the bird to Chrissy to Buddy. I have compassion for all animals. Bill & Jan were captivated by unique automobiles and hot rods. I am an avid enthusiast of capturing the sexy lines of exotic sports cars at a street rod car show on Main Street. Bill & Jan were rail roaders and traveled countless thousands of miles from Orville to Winnamucca. I have driven coastline to coastline in everything from a rental car to a school bus and once drove a dumbstruck across the beautiful state of Colorado. The Reed's can drive anything anywhere. Bill & Jan were talented with their own mediums of art and their creativity still shines on today. I have been painting and sharing my acrylic pours for years. Bill & Jan were friendly with everyone that they came in contact with. I still take pride in opening doors for others, greeting strangers with a friendly hello, waving to officers of the law, and treating my fellow human without judgment and genuine respect. Bill & Jan religiously watched NASCAR Racing every Sunday afternoon and cheered on Jeff Gordon throughout his career. I have had the privilege of traveling the world to attend F1 Racing Live and a handful of Indy Car Races around the US. Bill & Jan created gorgeous rock walkways, archways with stones, and various flooring over the decades of marriage. I throughly relish fabricating patio features with flagstones that were created from deep within Mother Earth. Bill & Jan rifled through numerous computers. I unfortunately house four dead MacBooks on the back shelf of my closet. Bill & Jan instilled in us the magical board game of Cribbage. Bryan and I are avid Cribbage players and enjoy a non competitive game of crib, even while we are vacationing in ViVa Lost Wages during opening week of March Madness. I am now going to honor all the friends, family, partners, and lovers that discovered Portola because of Bill & Jan - ( I listed off 14 names and wrapped it up with the world travel twins Dennis and Rob for 16 names ) - I leave you all with these thoughts. You are never too old to set goals. So stay adventurous and adventure on - Peace & Love
The Dude & I hit the road before the sunrise Sunday morning. In all, we drove 1790 miles 2880kms. But it wasn't the miles, it was the journey.
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...I see that Uncle Butch isn't afraid of color!
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Dearest Travis,
ReplyDeleteWOW, you sure went for a journey with the Dude and it involved your soul this time.
Guess by working so hard on making the place look better, you also washed off some old hurt and further digested all raw emotions.
No doubt it felt good after spreading the ashes and for giving a meaningful eulogy.
The fond memories remain and they stay with you till your final breath.
Good for having been there together as it was emotional mileage...
Big hugs,
Mariette
Exposing Deep Roots During That Journey - Was Away The Dirt Was A Total Body Metaphor There Little M - Spreading The Ashes Was A Real Since Of Closure And That Hillside Couldn't Have Been Any Better - I Do Carry Fond Memories And Allow Those Memories To Float On The Surface Of Life - Thanx For Such Kind Words - Much Appreciated
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ReplyDeleteThat is not a ghost. It is a portal to a world where there are no wars and differences are sorted out around a table.
It sounds like you had a pretty good time in spite of the reason for going.
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What a journey in to your past. You did a fantastic job in making the house look respectable again and as a result all those memories come rushing back to you. The trip was a great one for you and one that will be a ife long memory. Thanks for sharing and enjoy the upcoming weekend.
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What a beautiful tribute to Bill and Jan. May their memories be a blessing. Bittersweet traveling back in time to childhood homesteads. You made the little house shine again. All it needed was a little TLC and some elbow grease. Well done, you. Take care.
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Hello,
ReplyDeleteYou did a wonderful job sprucing up the house. I hope the memories of the old home are happy memories. Your post is a wonderful tribute to Bill and Jan. Take care, enjoy your day and happy weekend!
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The journey to and from Portola was a lifetime in the making. What a wonderful tribute to family. Sending a warm hug across the continent!
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That does look like a nice house that some TLC could render beautiful. I do enjoy your road trips. I love the west; I probably should live there but the East Coast is home. I think I am really an Easterner at heart. West visit this fall though; which I am excited about. Hope you made it home OK or are you still working on the house
ReplyDeleteThanx So Much For Following Along And Sure Could Use A Proper Vacation I Tell Ya - Stay Out East As There Is Zero Water Out West - Big Hugs Erika
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When it's done in love is not labor, your heart is showing and its a good thing. I know Bill n Jan would be so proud of the send off they had...I hope the house falls into the loving hands of someone who will cherish and make more family memories there. Wishing you and the Dude well.
ReplyDeleteAgreed Sondra Dear - I Know I Made Them Proud - Looking Forward To Handing The New Owners Their Keys Soon - Thanx For The Well Wishes
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Hola!! Que recorrido formidable cuantos momentos y travesias que son todo experiencis y emociones. Es genial!!! Un abrazo y gracias por visitarme y sus bonotos comentarios.
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Las fotos don excepcionales!!
ReplyDeleteOh, you make me want to pack a few clothes, ask Scotty to beam me to a place to explore, vast (warm) and all, get a proper car and take off, too.
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing this, also the great work.
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Beautiful on the road pics. Loved your narration of the golden eagle landing! Wow! Have yet to see a golden eagle. Damn!
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I'm very touched and thank you for sharing your journey with the Dude...your journey into childhood, adolescence and goodbyes. The work and beautification on the house certainly involved a lot of processing of your inside / heart. Goodbyes are hard.
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Thank you for sharing so many of your memories. I can never get over at how beautiful the nature is there. I'm sure that Dude did a great job with his speech at the celebration of life. All the best to you!
ReplyDeleteThe house and the phone call story scared me. Wow, the Dude must have really scared you that time.
The last time I was startled by something it was by a pony. Yes, from all things a pony. He was running manically, the grass was tall so I couldn't see him, I could just hear something heavy moving towards me. For a minute I thought it was a wild boar (the only animal I'm afraid of!). I was perhaps never as relieved as when I saw that pony.
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Oh so many adventures
ReplyDeleteThe photos are so good
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Thanks for sharing your journey, great pics.
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Sounds like a journey for reflection and closure. Lovely of you to make that little house shine again. You've got a good heart, Padre. I'm sure Bill and Jan would have been touched with the sendoff.
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Gostei de ver as fotografias desta bela viagem.
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Oh yes spring is coming :D Thanks, sending positive vibes back.
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A lifetime reflection and able to say your goodbyes. An emotional challenge, but yet those days just recently past are now memories too!
ReplyDeleteSo Many Memories - The Closure Finishing Line Is So Close - Thanx For Checking In There Hootin
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i can't imagine driving for 11 hours. But your roads are just superb (or it seems so) that I would enjoy it for a few hours. I'm jealous of your Golden Eagle sighting that clearly thrilled you. I have to travel to Scotland to see those. Your friends and family look and sound delightful to be around. Cheers dude.
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Great post Padre, I enjoyed reading about your memories and adventures.
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I love spring and its positive vibes! Your heart is very beautiful, Padre!
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Finally some good news! Your photos are so colourful and joyfull and you are always surrounded by happy and beautiful people.
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It Feels As If It Is Non Stop - But It Keeps Me From Looking At The Clock - There Are Beautiful People Everywhere - Thanx For Stopping By And Noticing All The Wonderful Moments In Time - I Needed To Read That As A Way Of Reflecting - Much Appreciated There WT
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Fantastic photos ❤
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What an emotionally tough trip - I know because I have been doing similar things. I'm so glad that you had the Dude with you. That makes hard things easier. RIP WC. And lots of love to you.
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Seems like kind of a bittersweet trip, but overall, very upbeat. Thanks for sharing with us!
ReplyDeleteAgreed - So Close To The Finishing Line - Thanx For Following Along The Journey Brother Parts
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I love to travel west. It looks like you had a meaningful, and purposeful trip.
ReplyDeleteTravelling cures the soul. Beautiful photos. Happy Easter weekend!
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You know how to do a little bit of everything, it's incredible. Beautiful photos, good memories and great friends. We must always enjoy the best that life offers.
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I'm not sure how I missed this post, but I am glad to find it today! I'm so sorry for your loss but I hope that working on the house helped make it better for you. Looks like a great little town to grow up in! I guess you can go home...
ReplyDeleteHoping for spring and some color in the landscape.
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Spring is the perfect time for trips like these. Beautiful nature!
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What a road trip, passing through massive, beautiful sceneries with precious memories! Driving into sunrise must have been perfectly lovely.
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Amazing Road Trip For Sure - I Thank You For Such Kind Descriptive Words Yoko - Sending Positive Vibes
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Muy detalladas las jornadas y las imágenes de tu recorrido.
ReplyDeleteSe ve que has disfrutado bastante en tu viaje.
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ReplyDeleteThat was some trip. Sometimes it is good to go back and visit. Some things and people are worth it.
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Thank you for visiting my blog. Beautiful photos. I love the houses and the landscape. The red houses is look alike the houses in Denmark. Beautiful trip.
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